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Magulo pa rin
Marami pa ring katanungan ang hindi nasasagot
Maraming mga bagay ang nabuksan pero wala pa ring malinaw na kasagutan pero may mga sugat na mulang nadaplisan

Ang lalim noh? Pero totoo
Parang tele nobela lang ang mga pangyayari ngayon

contrata ni allan at cent

Wala nga lang date

January 8, 2009

Nagkagulo ang dalawa dahil sa kinukuha ni cent na sukli kay allan na 85 pesos. Sabi naman nung isa binigay na daw niya noong pagpasok namin sa sinehan. As usual kaming 3 ulit ang nanonood, wala ng ibang available na sumama. Nanonood kami ng Bedtime Stories, laugh trip lang talaga.

Sa susunod na pagkikita, si cent na ang may utang

Bye 2008 - Hello 2009

A year full of fun, adventure and trials.
Another year to celebrate life.

Ohwell, although I'm here at work this won't stop me from hoping good things to come.
Its drizzling outside, and I take it as blessings for the coming year.
There are a lot of things to be thankful this year.

Hmm let me reminisce some of it. Some good and some bad...
My last relationship ended last February 14. What a date, but then it was a blessing in disguise. Im able to enjoy new things on my own and with friends and family.
Hard work has been paid off last March. Im quite happy with my work. Well there are a lot of not so good things happening here at work but I have friends to confide with, they're just a few stations away from my desk. My angels here... Maybe things will turn out to what it should be in the future. I know God listens to our plead. Hahaha.. Lord, sige na.. ;)
I met new friends with lomomanila. Together, we captured once in a lifetime moments. It was my first time to ride at the PNR, the ferry boat etcetera
Bought films and cameras, waaahh GAS... an investment
After 23 years, my own laptop
My first time to go to Boracay and ride on a plane... yiheee.. and the boracay romance?? hahaha
Meet up with a few high school friends.
Spent christmas at home, after 2 years.
Wow! can't name it all

And for next year, I have a lot of plans especially for travel and for my family.
I want to reach out more with people. To make a difference in their lives.
Lovelife? Hahaha, I'm patient with that. HE'll give it to me when the right time comes

i think...

this is the worse birthday ever in my entire life

having to deal all the blames at work
haler hindi po ako superwoman at take note hindi ako payroll / accountant

if people can't say anything good, then SHUT UP

well, there's still a lot as in a lot of people around who cannot just shut their mouth

right after boracay, oo sobrang amazing ng vacation na yun
it was my first time to ride a plane, to be inside the airport, to be in boracay etc.. etc..
and gustong gusto ko na talagang bumalik dun, kahit mga 3 days more
how i wish mabigay ko yun sa sarili ko

plus eto pa nagpapissed off talaga sakin
ohwell, umasa na naman ako sa lalaki, xempre alangan namang merlat
hahaha boracay romance nga daw
una, kilig kilig pa ako, can't get off my mind talaga pero dahil wala namang effort kahit sinabi nga nyang ganun, aysus tama na diba
bonggang bonggang katangahan na yun

to cut it short -- i hate the damn place i am working now
everytime i go to work, it feels like hell... where I am stuck for 9 hours
but then there's a consolation
in this place, i still have my angels

i just think that this is still the worse birthday ever
and on my birthday itself, makikita ko pa siya.. hmm pano ko kaya siya pakikitunguhan?
may matutuloy kaya o wala...
bahala na sa batman

Dating 101: Will Your Guy Cheat on You?

Dating 101: Will Your Guy Cheat on You?

You don't need lipstick on a collar to know your man is the two-timing type. Here, a simple test that'll reveal his philandering potential.

By Cosmopolitan Photo: iStockphoto.com/Craig Swatton Updated: Nov 21, 2008

When you're dating a guy, you can forgive him for some indiscretions, but it's nearly impossible to turn the other cheek if he strays. Well, Cosmo did some investigating to ascertain the traits that may make men more likely to cheat, and some of our findings were surprising eye-openers.

But before you freak, realize that just because he possesses characteristics of a mangy scoundrel doesn't mean he's actually cheating on you. "You have to listen to your gut as well as read the clues," says Gary Aumiller, Ph.D., a psychologist and coauthor of "Red Flags! How to Know When You're Dating a Loser." Run through this list of wandering-eye warning signs to see if your partner is predisposed to prowl... and find out how you can deal.

More Dating Articles from Cosmopolitan:

• If He Stops Wanting Intimacy, Something Is Wrong
• 10 Dating Truths You Can't Ignore

Dating Factor: His Background

Cheat Predictor #1

Was he spoiled as a kid?

Do his parents tend to baby him and help him out of financial jams?

Has he ever bragged about cheating on an exam or paying someone to write a paper for him in college?

If your man seems to have sailed through life without ever hitting the rough waters that rock the rest of us, beware. Privileged chaps tend to suffer from a sense of entitlement (read: bratty-boy syndrome), so he may believe that the rules don't apply to him. He's so used to getting what he wants, why should he stop now?

"He might cheat because he thinks he deserves to fulfill all of his needs, no matter who he might hurt," says Shirley Glass, Ph.D., a psychologist, infidelity expert and author of the forthcoming "Not Just Friends: Protecting Your Relationship from Infidelity and Healing from the Trauma of Betrayal." "He probably has little concept of how upset you would be if you found out because he's too self-centered to think about your feelings."

So how do you know if your have-it-all hunk has other women on his wish list? Glass suggests paying attention to how he copes when he's confronted with any bad behavior on his part. Does he regret getting caught forwarding your racy emails to his friends but feel no guilt for doing it in the first place? Does he blame others when he screws up rather than take responsibility himself? If he can't see how his actions affect others, he's not likely to say, "Whoa, what about my girlfriend?" when temptation strikes.

Dating Factor: His Career

Cheat Predictor #2

Does he work mostly with women?

Is he always logging in late hours, whether it be at the office, at dinner with clients or on business trips?

Does he make a lot of money?

It's great to date a guy with ambition -- and his deep pockets definitely don't hurt when he brings you pricey baubles -- but the office environment can open the door to private meetings of the carnal kind. According to Glass, studies show that when men cheat, it's most often with a work colleague. "Not only are people with similar interests side by side on a daily basis, but the time they spend together is usually when they're most energetic and look their best."

Unfortunately, the bigger his wallet, the more likely your busy bee is to cozy up with an office buddy. According to a study conducted by Jan Halper, Ph.D., author of "Quiet Desperation: The Truth About Successful Men," top-tier guys have affairs more often than those on a lower rung, and not just because big bucks can be babe magnets. "Evolution has wired men to understand that the better they are at providing, the more appealing they are to women," says Alon Gratch, Ph.D., a psychologist and author of "If Men Could Talk." "Since testosterone is what drives men's quest for power, if a guy has achieved status, he's more likely to act on his desires." Remember that little Oval Office incident?

But before you start staking out your guy's office parking lot, realize that a career-oriented man might just be spending time working diligently. If he sounds happy that you call during the day, invites you to his office and takes you to company parties, you're most likely his one and only partner. It's when he acts more secretive about his work than a CIA agent that he's probably taking on after-hours clients.

Dating Factor: His Schmooze MO

Cheat Predictor #3

Can he talk his way out of anything (parking tickets, rolling into work late)?

Does he make an effort to charm everyone -- your coworkers, your older sister, a saleswoman?

When you go to parties, does he insist on making the rounds?

Your friends and family love him, and he always manages to keep you entertained. How could you not adore him? But according to Glass, sweet-talkers often have a deep need for approval and thrive on attention. So what's wrong with dating a really friendly fella? Well, sometimes a smooth operator's need for the spotlight can't be satisfied by one woman's ego-stroking. And if he's suave with the ladies, opportunities undoubtedly arise. "Charmers meet a lot of women and win them over easily," says Aumiller. "So even if his intentions aren't more than friendship, they might be willing to move beyond friendship, and that's hard to resist."

To determine if your charmer might become a two-timer, watch how he interacts with you in social settings. A guy who wants to play with other partners may brush you off when chatting with a new female friend or get noticeably more uncomfortable with PDAs when other women are around. "He should act like a boyfriend, giving you side glances when he's talking with someone else, for example, or making sure he spends at least part of the night partying with you," says Gratch. But it also wouldn't hurt to remind him how attention-worthy you are. When he chats up a chick in the corner, flirt with a few guys yourself. Once he sees that you have your own game going on, he'll focus back on you.

Dating Factor: His Friends

Cheat Predictor #4

Does he usually hang out with a crew of mostly single guys?

Do his friends encourage him to join them in just-for-men activities?

Do his pals have problems staying in relationships?

The nightclubs, the bachelor parties, the dudes-only deeds we're better off not knowing the details of -- it's enough to make any woman worry just a wee bit. Although boys-will-be-boys, bonding time helps a committed man feel less, well, trapped, the appeals of bachelorhood may make him long to be a free agent. A recent study of 37,000 men and women showed that when guys see those around them splitting from their significant others, it tends to encourage them to do the same.

You want to believe that his buddies would have enough sense to stop your guy from canoodling with some cute club-hopper, but they won't always be on your side. According to Aumiller, "If a coupled-up guy's friends are all looking to get lucky, they may not only tease him about being tied down but also actually dare him to cheat. At the very least, they'll cover for him."

Still, there's no need to ban him from hanging out with the bachelors if he's able to strike the right balance between his buddies and you. "He should include you sometimes when he meets up with friends," says Glass. Although your fella's frat pack might seem like the enemy, chumming it up with the guys (fake fondness if you have to) can do wonders for your relationship. Once you've earned their respect, they're much less likely to push your partner into prowling.

Reprinted with permission of Hearst Communications, Inc.

dreamzzz

lately, I've been dreaming a lot of things
hindi ko alam kung dahil ba sa naiba yung body clock ko
minsan nagigising ako, lumuluha ako
kasi yung napanaginipan ko either may sad scene or parang pinapatay ako
sabi nga ng prof ko dati
nanaginip tayo madalas kapag maraming iniisip, maraming nagbobother
or
kapag wala tayong iniisip, yung tipong tahimik naman buhay mo pero parang empty
sakin yung second... feeling ko lang
although madaming stressful events sa buhay ko lately especially sa work (mag isa mo ba naman magtrabaho for HR)
i look ways naman to relax, so at peace naman ako madalas
o feeling ko lang at peace ako...
eto pa nakakatawa minsan, yung mga taong bihira ko lang makausap either personal or sa chat (tapos yung topic eh not so personal naman)
ume eksena din sa panaginip ko
mamaya kaya, ano na naman mapapanaginipan ko?

The Oarhouse - Sept. 27 - Oct.31

LITRATO: Postcards from the Light
{A Lomomanila Exhibit}

September 27 to October 31, 2008
The Oarhouse at 1803 Mabini Street, Malate, Manila
(Located behind Malate Church, near the corner of Remedios Street)

A photograph is a scribble of light. A passage of immediacy from the infinite stream of moments. A postcard from ephemeral light. Lomomanila mounts a photographic exhibition exemplifying the timely and timeless qualities of black and white analog photography. Displayed in the memorable hole-in-the-wall called The Oarhouse, this photo exhibition is a humble ode to the visionaries of bohemian Malate.

See you there at September 27 (Saturday) 8:00PM for a night of good chow, good cheer and good company.

For more information on The Oarhouse, visit their blog at http://oarhouse.blogspot.com



Poster layout by Patrick Jamora • Photography by Vermont Coronel • Special thanks to Reg Hernandez of The Oarhouse